Power, Polyamory, and Spiritual Bypassing
Unpacking Aubrey Marcus’ “New Sacred Relationship”
In this raw and reflective episode of Awakening Conversations, Kate and Amanda dive into the cultural ripple effect of a recent podcast featuring Aubrey Marcus, Vylana, Alana Beale, and Dr. Marc Gafni—a conversation that has stirred deep emotions and sparked widespread debate in the spiritual community.
With honesty and nuance, they unpack the themes of spiritual influence, power dynamics in leadership, and the increasingly blurred lines between ego-driven desire and spiritual truth. From the language of “radical monogamy” to the use of spirituality to justify personal choices, this episode explores how we discern truth from illusion—especially when it’s cloaked in conscious language.
What does real spiritual integrity look like? How do we hold space for complexity without bypassing pain? And when is a spiritual “edge” just spiritual gaslighting in disguise?
This episode invites deep self-inquiry and reminds us of the importance of discernment, sovereignty, and coming back to what’s truly aligned.
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In this episode...
Takeaways:
- Influence carries impact: When spiritual leaders share personal choices, it can influence others—sometimes in deeply personal ways. Choose your mentors wisely.
- Discernment is essential: Not all spiritual language is rooted in truth. Learning to trust your own inner knowing is vital on the awakening path.
- Words shape perception: Terms like “radical monogamy” can disguise reality. Stay alert to how language is used to reframe, justify, or soften difficult truths.
- Power dynamics matter: Unequal influence in relationships can lead to self-abandonment. True union honors the voice and needs of both people.
- Spiritual bypassing is real: Using God, spirit, or destiny to justify ego-driven choices is a slippery slope. True integrity includes self-honesty.
- Pain isn’t always progress: Repeated emotional breakdowns aren’t always signs of awakening. Sometimes they reveal inner conflict, not clarity.
- Collective wisdom is rising: The comments on this topic were deeply thoughtful—proof that people are awakening, discerning, and speaking from lived experience.
- Healing ≠ Mastery: Deep spiritual work doesn’t guarantee emotional maturity. Integration is everything.
- This conversation is a mirror: The collective response reveals where people are waking up to their own sovereignty, boundaries, and need to reclaim inner authority.

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Both Amanda & Kate have been through and are still going through their own awakening journeys, which, in fact, the creation of this podcast is a continuation of their awakening unfoldings.
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